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Today's Tale
Thursday, June 23, 2005
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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition
(or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant
to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he
is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you
any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if
he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two
way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!) Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



WAC had this posted on DO.  Some of it hurts but I have to agree with this.

Today started off AWFULL... do u HEAR me?  ( Words of Duriel)

How about my alarm clock didn't ring?  I had to be at work at 5 AM and was there at 5:17.

I took extra careful care to make sure that my alarm was set the night before,  my manager called me like 7 minutes before 5am asking me if I knew that I was suppossed to be there at 5. I'm glad he called, because that woke me up.   I looked at my alarm and it was still set for 4am.   It was still on. It didn't ring at all. I'm so sad. Because of that I get all next week off.


Sigh.   I'm going to go buy another alarm clock and have 2, just in case one doesn't work.


Any way, I got home,  changed and went over to Snoop, Marcus, and Lawrence's apt.    We were all going to go to the mall but of course people BSed before we actually went anywhere.   I ended listening to Marcus make beats and he and Lawrence rapping to them.  Some of it was pretty decent though. I want that program... EJ or something, I think it's called.

Anyway, we did end up going to the mall and we had a good amount of fun, I would say.

Then I went to my dad's job, and here i am now. 

I'm in the lab and T (my dad's coworker) had to stick this kid.  He is having a freaking panic attack. You would think someone was trying to kill him.

I kind of feel bad for him.

I need to go visit www.soulingraphics.com/forum  soon. I haven't been there in a while and I need to showcase some work to brighten up the place.

Ok, I went to  soulingraphics and this is my featured piece:  his  name is graphixs.. .hot isn't it?

graphixs work



Posted at 09:15 pm by black_berry

whyme635
August 24, 2005   07:04 PM PDT
 
That is a powerful piece. I'm glad I checked it out.
Draeygon
June 24, 2005   07:52 AM PDT
 
"You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two
way street."

Well, that sounds kind of familiar...
=P


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You are listening to :Jin: Fuck the Tsunami Song


You got it twisted, If you think I'm here to cock block
On a bunch of  no talent wanna-be shock jocks
Nah
And they say it's all freedom of speech
Well you just lost yours, read them and weep
Wont be happy until you're fired
My peoples is pissed holmes
And I bet you not a solo miss jones
Miss who? My point exact
and tell the rest of your staff  that they need up clean up they're act
fuck the tsunami song and whoever thought of it
matter fact, fuck the engineer that recorded it
and the brains behind the scenes that applauded it
anything for ratings huh?
this shit is corporate
that little bullshit statement has gotta be, the worlds most half ass apology
thousands are still getting discovered each day
how dare you compare a life to a weeks pay
interesting, y'all quick to have a smack fest
but those that really need to ain't get slapped yet
and its rare that I'm even rapping pissed
jin is far from a human rights activist
so dont take this in a political fashion
nope its just a good old lyrical bashing
in fact I'm making it a mission of mine
wont stop till every last petition is signed
hip hop is designed to unify the masses
and we demand that you be denied the access
radio is whack, yo somebody gotta say this
same five songs on every single playlist (god)
and bad karma is the worst way to go
so I pray that god has mercy on your soul

yea
i mean you know I was gonna have something to say about this whole situation
cause for some odd reason
whenever some shit like this happens in regards to my peoples in the
society, in the media
it always manages to get swept under the rug
or end up right below the radar for some reason
like it never happened
but let it be any other race and this shit woulda been hit the fan

all my soldiers out there
its time for our voices to be heard yo
its no more of that shit
but you know I got love for everyone
whether you black, white, hispanic
that's why I love hip hop cause it bring us all together
im juss sayin
dont let it be your peoples that they dissin next time
making fun of they tradgedys just for a cheap laugh
and you sittin there like what the fuck
know what I'm saying
so keep them emails going through
keep them complaint letters goin out
keep them phones calls goin into the radio stations and the sponsers
tellin 'em how you feel
and what a fucked up move they made
let 'em know
let 'em know its about the people
and shout out to miss info too keep your head up ma
yeah
oh yeah and if all else fails
just turn the bullshit off


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