If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition
(or
spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant
to
be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you
deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he
is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you
any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you,
speak up. Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if
he
has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two
way
street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,
and
your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!) Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't
give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.



WAC had this posted on DO.  Some of it hurts but I have to agree with this.

Today started off AWFULL... do u HEAR me?  ( Words of Duriel)

How about my alarm clock didn't ring?  I had to be at work at 5 AM and was there at 5:17.

I took extra careful care to make sure that my alarm was set the night before,  my manager called me like 7 minutes before 5am asking me if I knew that I was suppossed to be there at 5. I'm glad he called, because that woke me up.   I looked at my alarm and it was still set for 4am.   It was still on. It didn't ring at all. I'm so sad. Because of that I get all next week off.


Sigh.   I'm going to go buy another alarm clock and have 2, just in case one doesn't work.


Any way, I got home,  changed and went over to Snoop, Marcus, and Lawrence's apt.    We were all going to go to the mall but of course people BSed before we actually went anywhere.   I ended listening to Marcus make beats and he and Lawrence rapping to them.  Some of it was pretty decent though. I want that program... EJ or something, I think it's called.

Anyway, we did end up going to the mall and we had a good amount of fun, I would say.

Then I went to my dad's job, and here i am now. 

I'm in the lab and T (my dad's coworker) had to stick this kid.  He is having a freaking panic attack. You would think someone was trying to kill him.

I kind of feel bad for him.

I need to go visit www.soulingraphics.com/forum  soon. I haven't been there in a while and I need to showcase some work to brighten up the place.

Ok, I went to  soulingraphics and this is my featured piece:  his  name is graphixs.. .hot isn't it?